Archive for September, 2006

Photo freakout!

Saturday, September 23rd, 2006

Today I held Jack for about an hour. It was totally awesome. We talked about man stuff and a good time was had by everyone.

Actually, I don’t really care if everyone had a good time, ’cause I had a great time. And to be honest, its nice to have a good time now and then. During the last six weeks, there havent been too many good-times to be had, so doing something nice for myself, without thinking about the 1,000,001 things-that-could-go-wrong was really nice. We just sat there, hanging out, father and son, and for a second or two, I felt like we had a real connection. And just for that second I got the feeling that maybe it was all going to be OK. Thanks Jack.

* All photos by world-class photog Mom Smart

New Hat

Saturday, September 23rd, 2006
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Fashion.

Saturday, September 23rd, 2006

Like all fashion, Katherine Bruce Mechner Couture is sooo yesterday. I know this because Jack has managed to outgrow his hat. Yesterday I heard him say to nurse, “Darling, please, get rid of this hat. I simply can’t look at it any longer.” Its seemed sorta harsh, but what can I tell you. 1490 grams or 3 pounds and 3 ounces of preemie fashionista cant be wrong. Sorry Katherine, you’re yesterdays news.

Jack is still hanging out at the same settings on the intubater, the plan is to extubate him, it’s up to him as to when. Also, his feeding are up to a whopping 18cc’s, which is increasingly important. See, the thing is, Sarah has been pumping every 2 hours, and filling up the Lindberg’s freezer with little plastic bags of milk. I mean, really filling it up. Like, its getting full. So the more Jack eats, the more room there is in there for my Ben and Jerrys Christina’s super-healthy frozen dinners. Nutrition is very important. Especially, the Oreo Mint Chip variety.

I know I promised more pictures yesterday, but I’m a dumb-ass and I left the camera at the apartment. But today, I’m bringing one for sure.

Oh and remember my camera lust. Well its out, ordered, and on the way. So look for cooler pictures next week.

Stats

Friday, September 22nd, 2006

Status – The boy is pretty stable. They are taking down the intubation assistance level in anticipation of extubating (that’s the opposite of intubating) him next week. He has been Desatting as they lower the amount of assistance he gets, but he is recovering on his own now, which is a good sign.

One new thing, there is a chance that they boy may be getting a nose job. (I can hear my mother gasp as she reads this) One of the side effects of having the CPAP jammed up his nose for so long is that it can sometimes break down the cartilage of his septum. Most of the time it heals itself, but sometimes they have to do a little baby rhinoplasty. No biggie, it’s just deciding between a Bob Hope nose, or more of a Dustin Hoffman kinda thing.

I know, I know, I know!! You need more pictures. You people are like a broken record. I’m working on it, you’ll get your fix later today.

Oh, one more quick thing. See those advertisements over there on your right. Every time you click one, Jack’s college fund gets a little bigger. Now I don’t want to tell you what to do, BUT….. You want pictures and Jack wants to go to Harvard Princeton, so start clickin’.

Sarah edited to add: Arch forgot to mention the rockin’ little party Jack had in his isolette last night in honor of his Grammie Hope’s 37th (cough, cough) birthday. It was rockin’, truly.

Planning ahead

Wednesday, September 20th, 2006

Our days are starting to fall into a routine. I work in the morning, either from the office or at Amanda’s and then I head over to see Jack around 2:30. I’ll usually stay until his 6pm feeding and then Arch meets me and we spend some family time together.

To minimize interuptions to Jack’s rest, and because Preemies are so sensitive to stimulation, the nurses cluster: feeding, suctioning, respiratory therapy, temperature check and diaper change into “care groups.” These care groups happen once every three hours and coincide with the times when he is most likely to be awake. So, if I time it just right, I am there for two feedings and sometimes (like today) I get to hold him.

I also get to change his diapers, which was not a particularly pleasant task this afternoon. I’ll just say this, we had to air out the isolette.

In a nutshell, Jack had a very good day. Yesterday was a bit iffy as he was still having a ton of Desatts even on the vent. But today, today he was like a different baby. He is up to 15ccs of milk and was remarkably calm during his 3pm feeding. While we were chilling (and waiting for the isolette to air out) Dr. Paley, one of the chiefs, came over and talked me through the next steps in Jack’s care:

1) The team would like to wean him from the vent directly to a Nasal Cannula, skipping the CPAP step altogether. What this means is that they would like him to not rely on pressurized air to keep his lungs open. We are weaning him off the vent by lowering the air pressure every day. Today they lowered him to an air pressure of 15, from 20 (room air pressure is 10). If he can tolerate that level for a couple of days, while remaining stable, he’ll be extubated by early next week.

2) His breast milk feedings account for 1/2 of his daily nourishment. He is also recieving an IV drip, called a TPN, that provides the other half. As we slowly increase the amount of breastmilk he receives they will start adding some human growth fortifyer to get more calcium into him and plump him up. AND as the breastmilk increases they’ll come down on the TPN until he is recieving all of his nutrition from breastmilk. This could happen in the next 2 weeks.

3) He will start getting his Synagis shots this month. Synagis is a monthly shot that Jack will recieve during cold & flu season. it provides some protection for him against RSV. More on RSV will come your way in upcoming posts entitled “hand washing and other necessary evils” AND “why my baby hates your baby”

4) He is scheduled for his first eye exam next week. Jack is at risk for ROP, a vision condition that most Preemies have. Since Jack can’t read an eye chart (YET), the pediatric opthamologist basically dialates his eyes and then checks out the condition of his blood vessels. No word on whether he has to wear those crazy old lady sunglasses afterwards.

In short, the doc was (more…)