Day 5

Filed under:General — posted by Dad on August 31, 2006 @ 10:01 pm

Sarah got sprung!!

Sarah got broken out of the hospital today, and it is with very mixed emotions that we leave. On the one hand I am very happy to have her out of there, but on the other, its heartbreaking to leave without our son.

One thing that is making it a bit easier is our temporary housing as provided to us by our friends David and Christina Lindberg (that’s CC Young to some of you). Tomorrow I’ll take a picture from the bedroom, but ’till then you’ll have to trust me -this place is friggin sweet!

I visited Jack at the hospital at about 9:00pm tonight and he is continuing to do well. He is eating some breastmilk, which is pretty exciting, and although he is still under the blue light which helps him with jaundice, things are going well. I left before they weighed him, but I’ll be able to report those numbers tomorrow.

Anyway, I took a few more snaps of his tiny hands and feet for all you fetishists out there…

Hand2

Foot

Hand

The weigh in

Filed under:Health — posted by Dad on @ 12:24 am

Apparently, all babies lose weight after being born. Well, preemies are no different. Jack weighed 1001 grams when he was born, but on Tuesday he was down to 890 grams. Its normal for a preeemie to loose between 10% to 20% of their weight, so we weren’t too worried. He also broke the all important 1000 grams barrier which gives him a much better prognosis than many of the micro-preemies in the room with him.

They weigh him at the end of every day, at around 10:00pm. Today, we happened to be visiting him when it was going down. He came in a 908 grams, a slight increase from the day before, so we were psyched about that.

Now, he is nekked in this video, so don’t look if you have never seen any man-parts.

Also, you can really get an idea of just how tiny he is, notice Sarah’s hand is in the top of the frame.

Sarah edited to add: apparently all premature babies look like little old men. That’s what our boy looks like right now, an exceptionally cute old man.

More pics on Day 4

Filed under:Health — posted by Dad on August 30, 2006 @ 4:01 pm

I missed Sarah holding Jack for the first time early this morning. She got to hold him “skin to skin” or what they call Kangaroo Care for a few minutes.

Here are some pictures of what we did for the rest of the day.

The big picure.

This is where Jack hangs out all day.

Oxygen levelThis is the machine that measures how much oxygen he is getting from the CPAP

The Main monitorThis is the main monitor that Jack is attached to.

The top line is his heart rate, his heart beats about twice as fast as an adult person, so 155 is totally normal.

The second line is the level of oxygen in his blood. the normal range here is in the mid 90’s. Its a little high here, so after I took this picture, they turned down the CPAP machine a tiny bit. That’s good because they will eventually want to ween him off of the CPAP totally, so the less help from it that he needs, the better.

The third line is the respiratory rate. That means breaths per minute. taking too many breaths per minute means that he is not able to get enough oxygen, but 55 is in the middle, and totally normal.

The Fourth line is blood presure, and it’s just fine too.

Today Jack also got to meet his first uncle, Uncle Jesse (not really). Jesse was on his way back from Wyoming to his year long stint in Ecuador and wanted to see his baby nephew before leaving for South America. Jack also met Victoria last night and Lucy tonight. He has a very busy social schedule.

Here is the Jack’s first you tube video, he’s wiggling a little bit.

Day 4 -early morning

Filed under:General, Health — posted by Dad on @ 4:07 am
Day 4 - early morning.Today is Sarah’s (my) first post to the blog, and frankly the first time I’ve felt up to it.

We’ve been in the hospital for two weeks today. This is one of 3 nights that Arch hasn’t slept here and it’s amazing how much his presence comforts me, I can’t sleep.

I have been up and walking since Monday, and visited Jack 4 times today. The nurses say too much stimulation isn’t good for him. His heart rate rises when Arch or I touch him, and we’re trying to keep him stable, so now we kind of sit and stare unless the nurses give us a job to do. He has Mild RDS and has been suffering from Apnea, which they treat with good old fashioned caffeine. He stopped breathing 5 times in the past 24 hours, something that terrifies me, but the nurses seem relatively blase about the whole thing.

The nurses in the NICU are very patient with all of our questions although they hedge when I press for hard facts. They’re big into giving us jobs to do for him and so today I got to change my son’s diaper for the first time. It was a very, very teeny, tiny little diaper indeed. I also learned how to take his temperature, which was slightly elevated and thus, not good. Later in the evening, I did a little online shopping and ordered a blanket to go over his isolette so that he can have a little peace and quiet once the french fry warmer (for the jaundice) comes off. The NICU is very loud with all kinds of beep and alarms going off.

*For those of you looking to shop for Baby Jack (and you know who you are) dark colored blankets for the isolette and soft preemie hats are the ticket*

He is still doing well and the while I can’t get any nurse or doctor to commit to a positive or negative diagnosis, we’re taking his general stability as a good sign. When Jack first came out, he surprised all of us by A) crying and B) breathing on his own. His APGAR score at 1 minute was 7 and at 5 minutes was 8 - better than some newborns born at term. We’re hoping he can sustain this strength for the long haul in front of us.

I did want to say that Arch and I are amazed at the care we have both received since being here at St.Lukes Roosevelt. While we never anticipated having to need a level 3 NICU or a high risk OB, here we are, and we are very lucky to be here. Most maternity patients are in and out in 3 days, we’ve been here for 14 days, and we’ve had the opportunity to get to know the remarkable doctors and nurses pretty well. The hospital adminstration itself is simply appalling, I’ve had 19 rooms in 14 days…but the care has been 1st rate.

I am convinced that Dr. Bradley and Dr. Playforth saved both Jack’s and my life and the nurses have kept us sane in the meantime. I know I am being discharged on Thursday and I had to say goodbye to Nurse Kathy today. Kathy ordered me around for one week on anti-partum and for the past 3 days here. She got me up, she kept me going, and she tag-teamed me (with Arch) into eating healthy food. She was a life saver. Tonight, one of the nurses who was in the delivery room with us stopped by to say how good Jack looked. In a huge hospital where it’s relatively easy to get lost in the system we have found that the Nurses, Residents and Doctors have made sure to keep us front in center, something we will never forget.

Finally, I want to say that we our room looks like a floral shop. I lost count of the number of bouquets we have received - I keep dropping off bouquets with the nurses and new ones keep appearing. It’s odd to feel lucky right now, but our Son is alive and we’ve got this amazing circle of friends and family, so yes I guess we feel very lucky indeed. Thank you.


S

Day 3

Filed under:General, Health — posted by Dad on August 29, 2006 @ 1:31 pm

Today is going well so far. I guess the thing is, that if nothing bad happens, then it’s a good day. We spoke with Jack’s Dr. today and he says that Jack is doing better that expected. The thing that we are learning is that all of the Doctors and nurses end every sentence with …”for now”.

Like Jack is doing better than expected… FOR NOW. They also say that the road is a rocky one, and that there will be good day and bad.

I am a genius, and I forgot our camera at Amanda’s house, so no new pictures today. I realize that Jack already has adoring fans, and that fans demand pictures. So don’t fret, more pics are on the way.


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